That is: All women want children—as one gynecologist told me, "That's what we're here for."But I don't want to.
I fully expect the ladies to leave, and I don’t blame them.
I certainly don’t wish to pursue a relationship with a woman who wants children, either.
These men were in their mid-to-late 30s and early 40s. And then they each promptly sabotaged the birth control that I was very strict about.
However, I was In addition to checking the "no kids" box on dating sites, I would clearly bring up my childfree decision sometime in the first few dates. Condoms have kept me baby-free my entire sexually active life. When used perfectly, as I have always done, they are very effective against pregnancy and STIs.
When we broke up and I entered the NYC dating carousel, I was 30 and had no idea what I was doing.