Dating the opposite sex
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According to nationally-respected body language expert and professional speaker, Patti Wood, you want to make yourself a "safe" (read approachable) target. Don't take up a lot of space (which is a sign of power and superiority.) Wood says, "we are strong women, but remember, we're trying to get a man to come over and talk to us." She explains, "you have to show you have room for someone else in your life."In addition, Wood says "to be very approachable women should stand with their feet no farther than 6 inches apart with toes pointed slightly inward.
To attract women, stand with your feet 6-10 inches apart, and toes pointing outward. For men who are victims of the "nice guy" badge, or who appear to be too submissive to attract women, try taking your Y chromosome out for a spin.According to Mehrabian, men should "try wearing bulkier or more conservative hairstyles or clothing," hold your head up, and speed up your speech and gestures to be more assertive.Body language tips for both sexes: Don't fold your arms and don't chew on gum, ice or your fingernails.According to Wood, the chewing indicates anxiety or frustration, neither of which are very attractive emotions.Not only will you meet more people, but, according to Mehrabian, bartenters tend to gravitate toward the corners as well. You'll feel like you've died and gone to dating heaven. According to Color Consultant Leatrice Eiseman, Director of the Pantone Color Institute and author of Colors For Your Every Mood, women are attracted to men wearing the color blue. According to Eiseman, guys who frequently wear blue are "stable, faithful, constant and always there." The blue guy is a fantastic candidate for a long-term relationship -- someone who's dependable, momogomous and can match his own clothes. Eiseman says women should wear a pink- peach to make themselves most approachable. Red adds an element of excitement and attracts two types of men - men interested in sex, and men attracted to powerful women.The color is "very flattering to most skin tones, it gives you healthy glow," and according to Eiseman, projects "a little vulnerability which brings out something protective in men."Of all the colors, red is the most sensual. Sure, you'll probably have to fend off a lot of freaks, but you could also end up attracting a guy that isn't threatened by the fact that you make a bigger salary.
How do you use body language to attract the opposite sex?
If you're a woman, the key is to make yourself approachable.
Smack-dab in the center of the room, standing up and moving around a bit.
Where should you be for the highest impact and the greatest number of interested cuties?
Albert Mehrabian, the author of several books and nationally-known expert in the field of spatial psychology, where you are in a room (and what you're doing) has a lot to do with your ability to attract the opposite sex.
(But don't pace a track on the carpet for goodness sake...)If you're in a bar or nightclub, the best place to be is at one of the corners on the bar. That hot stranger approaching your table and asking "may I join you" only happens in the movies.