Do you know what’s at the core of why women put up with behavior they find unacceptable? The reality of it is that if you want to mentally and emotionally be in a place where you have any say in your relationship, you have to diminish your fear of loss.
Let me shift your attention to the fact that you this guy.
I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I do not understand why he won’t stop flirting with other girls.
Some people have voids inside them and they forever try to fill them – with having other people desire them, with sex, with power, with money, etc.
In many cases, the void that people feel is caused by a feeling of separateness – a feeling that we don’t belong and aren’t acceptable.
You might see a bigger picture – a picture of what he really needs.
I had a girlfriend who was very flirtatious by nature.
Instead, you’re focusing on how YOU feel about it and that YOU don’t like it. You can feel hurt and victimized or you can open your eyes to the bigger picture…