Dave: You need to understand that being attracted to the opposite sex is not a new problem or one that is unique to you, and, yes, you will face it again.
So you need to develop a game plan on how to deal with tempting or enticing people outside your marriage who start to catch your interest.
Sit down and work things out, make apologies to one another and look for ways to start saying I love you on a daily basis.
When we affirm and compliment our spouse for things we love about them, and treat them with kindness everyday, the relationship will improve over time. Dave: Another key step if you are being drawn into a relationship beyond your partner: break the silence.
On the other hand, women are more enticed by touch, by closeness and by emotional understanding, and may get sidetracked by this high connection need.